Hey bride-to-be, congratulations! If you’re planning your wedding, first of all—congrats! Second? Let’s take a deep breath together. There’s a lot of noise out there (Pinterest, we love you but… calm down). If you’re feeling a little overwhelmed already, this is your gentle reminder that you don’t need to do it all.

As a wedding planner based on Maryland’s Eastern Shore, I help couples simplify the chaos and focus on what truly matters. Here’s what I want you to actually prioritize for your upcoming wedding day:

Choose What Feels Like You

Your wedding should reflect your story—not a TikTok trend or a bridal magazine checklist. Want pizza instead of a sit-down dinner? Do it. Dreaming of a sunrise ceremony or a black dress? YES. 

The magic happens when it’s personal, not like someone else’s Pinterest board.

Focus on the Vibe, Not A Theme

Instead of stressing over labels like “boho” or “modern glam,” ask yourself: How do I want the day to feel?

• Cozy and intimate?
• Effortlessly elegant?
• Big party energy?
  

Once you define the vibe, the details will fall into place—from your venue and music to your florals and lighting.

Work With Vendors Who Truly Get You

From your planner (hi, that could be me!) to your photographer and florist, you deserve a team that clicks with you.

It’s about more than checking boxes—it’s about feeling supported by people who understand your vision, energy, and priorities.

You’re going to spend a lot of time together, so find vendors who vibe with you and your partner.

Build in Little Pockets of Peace

Weddings are leaning more and more into intentional luxury—slow moments, not jam-packed timelines.

Give yourself room to breathe and soak it all in:

• A quiet first look
• A champagne toast on the porch before guests arrive
• A few deep breaths with your best friend before walking down the aisle
  

These are the moments that turn into the memories you’ll cherish most.

Keep It Meaningful

You’re not producing a show—you’re celebrating your love!

Let the details support the meaning behind the day, not overshadow it.

If something doesn’t feel right (or necessary), skip it. There are no rules—only what’s meaningful to you.

Planning a Wedding on the Eastern Shore of Maryland? Let’s Talk.

If you’re getting married in the next year and want a wedding that feels like you, I’d love to help bring that vision to life. Whether you’re just starting or already overwhelmed, I’ve got your back.

Get in touch today!